As far back as I can remember, the moment I was old enough to create stories and imagine-up worlds in my mind – I hit the ground running.
I would feverishly write stories full of adventure, of daring fights, of deeply-wounded friendships or ironic allies. Of deep and complicated love, of the types of fleeting moments that can only be experienced once in a lifetime. Of those kinds of moments full of an energy-force indescribable in our human speech.
There’s an ebb and flow to writing that has a sort of “give-and-take” respect you have to honor for the craft of writing. Thanks to writing over the years, it’s given me a whole new perspective of all sorts of different life experiences that I would not have gained otherwise. Not even through living my own life could I have acquired most of the knowledge I’ve worked hard to obtain.
For the first time, I was able to see through the lens of other people. This experience helped me see life through the lenses of men, women, and children who secretly felt overwhelmed by society and of living up to the expectations of others.
To honestly know their thoughts, their emotions, and their motives. It was quite possibly one of the scariest skills I acquired from writing. It was as though I was living through the scope of another person’s soul.
Once I accepted no turning back from this lifestyle, I started my journey arduously up this path. Little did I truly know, I would never again be able to control my own life. From this experience as a writer, I would understand what it meant to be a willing servant to the beautiful and mythical craft of writing. All of these truths and realities scared me like no other universal fact in life.
But oh boy, has the journey of a writer been one which has rewarded me with pieces of knowledge more precious than any dollar value could ever hold against it.
Just as much as it’s cursed me, being a writer has also given me the very privilege of seeing the world in its proper form. To see the beauty and horror of our existential dilemmas caused by a mixture of society’s constraints and our never-ending personal journey to maintain peace and equilibrium.
As I pause in this realism post, I think it’s essential to stop for a moment and be reminded by one fundamental truth that we may sometimes overlook.
Which is: “Be careful what you wish for.”
Suppose you understand the powerful weight and depth of these words. In that case, you will know that what you manifest in your own personal and private life will have unseen rippling effects even after your death comes. So you may realize to some extent; the actions of your words, the actions of your efforts, all hold a weight unseen by our human eyes.
But in some way, that’s the beauty of life.
This is what makes the life of a writer such a rollercoaster. We have no absolute control of what our lives will invariably become in the end. But we do have control over how we want to experience life and the legacy we want to leave behind. This is, without a doubt, one of the most potent truths to life.
You see, to be a writer not only means to be a weaver of stories, but moreover, it means to be human at its most core meanings and realities.
You must understand that you will become responsible, either directly or indirectly, for how some people live their lives. But if you take the time to truly understand those closest to you, and even those whom you work closest with, then you’ll begin to understand who they are as people.
You will invariably come to one of two conclusions. You will either like who you see or realize that some of these people are just so starkly different from yourself that you can’t stand being around them.
There are so many other things I wish to delve deeper into, but for today, I think I will end the post here.
If there’s anything I wish for you to take away from this post; it’s this:
Remember to always forgive yourself and others after you’ve had time to grieve. You are not responsible for the actions of others, and believe it or not, there are times in your life where you are not even in control of your own actions. We all live by the standards of others, after all. So we must be mindful of our lives and the others around us and realize that some things in life just can’t be changed.
Forever in Your Debt,
Leon R.M. Auguste
Great piece. Very wise insights. I especially liked this quote: “to be a writer not only means to be a weaver of stories; but moreover, it means to be human at it’s most core meanings and realities.” If you have time, check out my post “Letter To An Unknown Writer,” in which I discuss what it means to be a writer. How serendipitous that we both wrote about this topic lol Cheers!
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Wow, your article goes into a great deal of detail! Mine pales in comparison to yours lol. As I finished reading yours, I had a “Ah-ha” moment, in which I would liken the quote from my article: “to be a writer not only means to be a weaver of stories; but moreover, it means to be human at it’s most core meanings and realities” can very much act as the thesis sentence to your article “Letter to An Unknown Writer”. It’s like the quote leads into your article; a sort of prelude/prologue if you will. Both articles complement each other very much, like two pieces to an unknown puzzle. It’s even more eerie that your article is titled “Letter to an Unknown Writer”, and mine is called “Becoming a Writer”. It’s as though your article is the mentor, and mine, the mentee. Definitely an awesome occurrence indeed; I feel even more connected to the world than I did before.
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I totally agree. I’m sure that there was something in you that made you write “Becoming a Writer,” and I strongly believe that it was that same “something” that made me write “Letter To An Unknown Writer.” As writers, we share so much, in terms of perspective and process. We are all unique, but in many ways we are all related.
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Like a tribe, full of individuals who are skilled in different trades, yet share the same ideology. In a way, we are a part of the “Writer’s Tribe”. I might just write an article about this experience we just had. Indeed, I believe that this moment deserves to be written down. I’ll likely name the article “The Writer’s Tribe.” This is a moment in which I will cherish for a long time.
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Yes, this would be a great experience to memorialize. I would love to read more about your concept of what the “Writer’s Tribe” is or could be. Thanks for sharing this powerful moment with me. Cheers!
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The pleasure is mine :)! I’m glad to meet people like you on WordPresses’ network. It’s always great to find people who are stimulated by intellectual concepts.
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Same here, thank you for sharing your vision with me.
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Very inspiring, most of us need the recognition, very little of us bloggers got it yet.
Thanks.
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Thank you; it’s more of just me writing out what I’m feeling. I think of my blog/website more as a journal right now. Perhaps later on I’ll start to write pieces that deal with news pertaining to what’s going on in the world
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Enlightening piece. I like your style of writing.
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Thank you for the continued support, I always enjoy making these pieces whenever I get the time to sit down and type out some thoughts.
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I just read the dedication to you at the end of the latest post in stripSearchLA. I like what you are doing on your blog and you can count me as one of your new followers. Thanks.
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It was an amazing poem he wrote; he is certainly a talent worth a million followers. Thank you Allan, I look forward to this community of writers. I hope you have a wonderful holiday season as we near the end of this spectacularly strange, yet eventful, year :).
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Strange Days, indeed. Thank you for following me and welcoming me into the community.
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